There comes a day, a moment in time, where you have to look at the person in the mirror. Tell her you love her, tell her you care for her. And look at the actions you've taken that day, the habits you've formed that month, and the lifestyle that you've fallen into that year- and think, do I really love her? Have I acted like it?
That's the most surreal moment. Looking at yourself in the eye, and being real. There's no filter, there's no film, no sugar coating. You are just looking at yourself raw. Literally- do it- and question yourself. It's a check in from within. That is the most transformative moment because there is no hiding.